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Clubius Besieged Part 6 – Valentine (February 1967)

I woke up to my clock radio playing a song I hadn’t heard before…

… A four of fish and finger pies
In summer, meanwhile back

Behind the shelter in the middle of a roundabout
A pretty nurse is selling poppies from a tray
And though she feels as if she’s in a play
She is anyway

It was a strange song. It sounded like the Beatles, but more like a grownups song than an older kids rock type song with guitars and drums and worrying about girlfriends and freedom and that sort of stuff. And some of the words I didn’t understand, like “finger pies” and “roundabout”. And that last line, “though she feels as if she’s in a play, she is anyway”, what was that about? Was it like drug stuff, like that “Along Comes Mary” song by the Association that older kids said was about drugs, “My empty cup is as sweet as the cup”, even though it didn’t talk about TAKING any drugs like that marijuana stuff.

Penny Lane, the barber shaves another customer
We see the banker sitting waiting for a trim
And then, the fireman rushes in from the pouring rain
Very strange

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Clubius Besieged Part 5 – Break (December 1966)

My clock radio turned on. Frank Sinatra was singing…

I said that’s life (that’s life)
And as funny as it may seem
Some people get their kicks
Stomping on a dream
But I don’t let it, let it get me down
‘Cause this fine old world, it keeps spinnin’ around

I hadn’t been awake, but I hadn’t been asleep either, I’d been in that kind of inbetween place. It was Monday morning of the last week of school before the two-week Christmas vacation. I hadn’t been able to go back to sleep since I’d woken up in the middle of the night after this weird dream of being in a giant house where zombies had taken over the bottom floor and I had to go upstairs, and then up into the attic as they kept looking for me. The attic had three regular walls but the fourth one was like a giant glass window with some kid behind it looking at me and looking worried. I asked if he could hear me but he didn’t respond, so I figured he couldn’t. I could hear the zombies downstairs and I kept looking at the staircase afraid they would come up in the attic and find me.

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Clubius Besieged Part 4 – Sock Hop (November 1966)

Because Abby told me, I knew Rose’s last name was Bertram, but I still hadn’t talked to her. She was in my Homeroom, but she sat in the front of the room by the door next to Myrna. I sat in the back by the windows with Lance and the other cool boys. She was kind of pretty and I just liked looking at her whenever I could, but I didn’t look at her so much that Lance and the others might see me and tease me about it. Sometimes when I was looking at her she might look at me and she might smile a little bit but then look away. I guess that was good. Abby had said that Myrna had said she was shy. I didn’t like to admit it, but I guess I was kind of shy too, so her being shy I guess was good.

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Clubius Besieged Part 3 – Math Club (October 1966)

On-Sets game by Layman E. Allen, Peter Kugel & Martin F. Owens

I was glad my regular school day was over, it felt like it had gone on for forever. I felt kind of tired all day because I hadn’t slept very good last night. Yesterday in Band, the teacher, Mr Balfort, got mad at me because I kept messing up my part in the “Liberty Bell March” we were learning, and then he said that this kind of thing happens if you don’t practice enough. I mean he was kind of right that I didn’t practice enough, but it was so embarrassing when he said that with all the other kids there listening and looking at me. Last night I practiced my part for a half hour, but I was still having trouble with it, so it was really frustrating. When I got into bed I kept thinking about that and worrying that if I kept messing it up he would get even angrier, because he did get angry at us a lot. I also worried about the Math test today, because I always wanted to do good on tests to impress my teachers, because tests always seemed to be really important to them, and I could see their eyes twinkle a little when they handed a test back to you where you got a really good score.

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Clubius Besieged Part 2 – Homefront (September 1966)

Nichols Arboretum in Ann Arbor

It was Friday afternoon and the last bell rang for the end of eighth period, the end of the day at Tappan and the end of my fourth week of school in this crazy junior high place with a thousand other kids.

It had been a very weird day because we had done swimming again in the school’s indoor pool for Phys Ed, and we didn’t wear swimsuits, we were naked that is.

Our Phys Ed teacher Mr Wash had said, the day before the first day last week when we did class in the pool, that it was his and the school’s “strong preference” that we swim without suits, because they didn’t want us bringing swimsuits to school and hanging them wet in our lockers, because they said stuff in there would get all moldy and stinky and stink up the whole school. He said if we insisted on wearing a swimsuit, we had to bring it that morning and take it home at the end of the day, and not leave it in our locker.

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Clubius Besieged Part 1 – “T” Day (September 1966)

I had to leave home at the latest by ten to eight, to get to Tappan by second bell, which gave me five more minutes til third bell and the start of my first class. It took about twenty minutes to walk to school, though it seemed longer than that, maybe because I had to keep turning corners and going on different streets.

Today was a “T” day, so I had to remember to bring my saxophone, because I had Band fifth period. On “M” days, I had French instead, which meant I only had to carry my three-ring notebook, and whatever textbooks I brought home yesterday to do homework. When girls brought books to school, they would carry them against the front part of their body with one or both arms wrapped around them. But you never saw boys carrying them that way, though I think it was easier. We always carried them in one arm on the side of our body. I’m not sure why, except that boys never wanted to be seen doing anything “like a girl”.

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Thoughts about “Emerging Adulthood” as a New Developmental Phase

My 21-year-old daughter Emma alerted me and her mom last week about this New York Times article, “What is it about 20-Somethings?” by Robin Henig. Emma had heard about it from her brother Eric’s girlfriend Sarah (another 20-something), who apparently has seen it in the New York Times. Emma said in her email to her mom and me…

Not sure if either of you caught Sarah posting a link to this on Facebook. It’s a long article but its well worth the read, absolutely along the lines of your philosophies around youth, and undoubtedly a great subject for a new blog piece!

Emma’s words gave the article a positive spin, and I had the article in my queue to read when my 30-something friend Emily emailed my yesterday to say…

I’m curious to know what you think about this article and the case for “emerging adulthood.” Let me know.

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