{"id":104,"date":"2008-12-27T18:45:25","date_gmt":"2008-12-28T02:45:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.leftyparent.com\/blog\/?p=104"},"modified":"2009-01-01T21:50:35","modified_gmt":"2009-01-02T05:50:35","slug":"school-decision-makers-revisited","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.leftyparent.com\/blog\/2008\/12\/27\/school-decision-makers-revisited\/","title":{"rendered":"School Decision Makers… Revisited"},"content":{"rendered":"

Emily responded to my \u201cSchool Decision Makers\u201d post and shared her frustration that she is apparently sending her son to a school that, as best as she can tell, is not the right place for him, and there seems to be little she can (as a parent) do about it except for pulling him out of it.
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What kind of real collaboration can parents and public middle school teachers have when it comes to finding the right educational path for each kid? When our son Eric was going to a public magnet middle school, his mom and I were lucky if we got to speak with each of his teachers more than once or twice a semester, and then often to find out that making any adjustments or accommodations for individual students was impossible either due to school policy or the size of the class. That was extremely frustrating for us as parents. All we could do was basically drop him off at school at the beginning of the day and leave him to his own devices to deal with this large bureaucratic institution… take it or leave it.
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\nAnd in the end, in the middle of Eighth grade, after days on end of begging me not to make him go to this school, we played the only card in our hand and took him out of that school. In our case we were blessed to even have that option, for even if you wanted to move your kid to another public school, what are your chances of getting them in another public school in the middle of the semester, and one that\u2019s really any different than the one they left? And even if you found a significantly different private school, could you afford it?
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\nIn our case we did not have the money for private school, but did have the resources and the flexible enough work schedules ourselves to let our son homeschool instead. But that\u2019s a story for another post.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Emily responded to my \u201cSchool Decision Makers\u201d post and shared her frustration that she is apparently sending her son to a school that, as best as she can tell, is not the right place for him, and there seems to be little she can (as a parent) do about it except for pulling him out […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[14],"tags":[21,1792,20,19],"class_list":["post-104","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-our-ongoing-strategy-for-learning","tag-decision-makers","tag-our-ongoing-strategy-for-learning","tag-parents","tag-teachers"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t