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	<title>Lefty Parent &#187; Education</title>
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		<title>A Parent’s Wish for More Sensible Education</title>
		<link>http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2010/07/17/a-parent%e2%80%99s-wish-for-more-sensible-education/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jul 2010 20:18:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cooper Zale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I find it sad to watch what is happening to our nation’s public education system.  It seems fixated in the thrall of a bureaucratized, regimented, OSFA (one size fits all) approach to learning that goes against all the principles of democracy, human nature, developmental science and every other pragmatic wisdom about what makes people [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_2248" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/John-Covington.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/John-Covington.jpg" alt="" title="John Covington" width="300" height="206" class="size-full wp-image-2248" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Kansas City MO school superintendent John Covington</p></div>I find it sad to watch what is happening to our nation’s public education system.  It seems fixated in the thrall of a bureaucratized, regimented, OSFA (one size fits all) approach to learning that goes against all the principles of democracy, human nature, developmental science and every other pragmatic wisdom about what makes people (adults and youth) tick.  For at least half the kids that are processed through its institutions, and much of its adult staff, it seems to lead to a profound ennui with learning and teaching&#8230; framing it as something you have to do rather than want to do.  A hazing ritual to be endured, rather than a voyage of discovery, joy and mastery.<br />
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So it was good to read a recent <em>Education Week</em> article, <a href="http://www.edweek.org/ew/articles/2010/07/03/364228usdumpinggradelevels_ap.html?tkn=SUTFEhE5p2bVVTKxSumxdw7hpur2Bn9lpnJx&#038;cmp=clp-edweek"><strong>“Forget Grade Levels, Kansas City, Mo., Schools Try Something New”</strong></a> and see a big-city school superintendent call out a profound reality and take a shot, within his constrained context, at finding solutions.  According to Kansas City Missouri Superintendent John Covington&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>The current system of public education in this country is not working. It&#8217;s an outdated, industrial, agrarian kind of model that lends itself to still allowing students to progress through school based on the amount of time they sit in a chair rather than whether or not they have truly mastered the competencies and skills.</p></blockquote>
<p>It’s at the same time painful and liberating to hear a mainstream educrat saying this publicly for all to hear.  But it is an important step to break through the mass denial of the dysfunctional ordeal we are putting so many million of our youth (and the adults who give their time to work with those youth) through.<br />
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I assume Covington is attempting to respond to President Obama’s well intentioned but (in my opinion) inappropriately named “Race to the Top” program.  The word “race” is loaded down with so many connotations of competition, a few winners and many more losers, and doing things to be better than others rather than to develop ones self.  And where the hell is the “top” that we should all be racing to?  Is it the top of some “heap”?  Is this any kind of metaphorical framing for a democratic society that aspires to be some sort of circle of equals?<br />
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The Obama administration’s challenge to the nation’s educational leaders (including Covington), to quote the President’s July 2009 statement on “Race to the Top” is to “enforce rigorous and challenging standards and assessments”, rather than something like “find innovative new approaches to learning”, which is what Covington is courageously trying to do anyway.<br />
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In simplest terms, Covington’s effort is to transition Kansas City schools from a focus on grade levels (and every student at the same age doing the same thing at the same time&#8230; very Henry Ford) to a very different framing based on skill development and mastery.  According to the <em>Education Week</em> article&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>Students — often of varying ages — work at their own pace, meeting with teachers to decide what part of the curriculum to tackle. Teachers still instruct students as a group if it&#8217;s needed, but often students are working individually or in small groups on projects that are tailored to their skill level&#8230; Advocates say the approach cuts down on discipline problems because advanced students aren&#8217;t bored and struggling students aren&#8217;t frustrated.</p></blockquote>
<p>This certainly is not rocket science, or wildly avant-garde thinking, but acknowledges the natural way most humans have learned stuff since the dawn of time.  And my point here is not to argue the details of this approach (you can read the article itself for that) but to instead acknowledge an attempt at pragmatic innovation and to think about other common-sense ideas (at least from a lefty parent’s point of view) that seem to mostly get short shrift in educational policy.<br />
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Like&#8230;<br />
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1. Getting regular feedback from students on what is working and not working for them in their learning process, including acknowledging, respecting and publishing that feedback, and engaging students as one of the stakeholders that can be included in efforts to make their educational process work better.  In a democratic society this seems to me a total no-brainer, but so many of us adults (school staff, parents and others) seem to be caught up in the conventional wisdom of authoritarian school governance.<br />
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2. Reframing curriculum mandates to acknowledge that (unlike perhaps 150 years ago when mandatory public education was implemented throughout the country) today there is such a wide diversity of things that could be learned along with an acknowledgment of human diversity, that we should have less required curriculum rather than ever and ever more.  I think this is counterintuitive to a lot of people, but think about it.  Constraining 90% of every youth’s learning within an externally mandated subset of “core” curriculum works against young people plunging into an array of compelling subject matter until they are liberated from their youth by adulthood and high school graduation.  Let’s let learning be more fun and based more on what interests us.<br />
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3. Reframing school assessment to encourage a wide diversity of learning environments rather than a Henry Ford “any color as long as it’s black”, OSFA approach.  As a parent I recall my frustration at failing to find a learning environment for our own kids that was in tune with their learning style, instead forcing them day after day into a regimented instructional environment that acknowledged them only as “product” rather than as “stakeholders”.  (See my post on <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2010/03/07/the-case-for-many-paths/"><strong>“The Case for Many Educational Paths”</strong></a>.)<br />
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From the point of view of a parent who sees their kids as autonomous human souls with unique developmental paths ahead of them, education is not a race to the top.  I can understand how a national bureaucracy with the responsibility for outcomes for 50 million youth can get caught up in talking up standardized rigor, for CYA political purposes.  But it’s just not pragmatic humanistic thinking and “right-sizing” for effective human development that accommodates the diversity of how we all interact with the world and chart our own courses.</p>
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		<title>The Adventures of an Unschooler on the Virtual High Seas</title>
		<link>http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2010/06/24/the-adventures-of-an-unschooler-on-the-virtual-high-seas/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 00:07:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cooper Zale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the best features of the educational path that is becoming known as “unschooling” is the opportunity for “deep learning”, that is, delving into something of great interest with all your mind, heart and soul, to whatever extent your inspiration and/or need takes you, instead of being told it is now time to learn [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/neverwinter-nights.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/neverwinter-nights-214x300.jpg" alt="" title="neverwinter-nights" width="214" height="300" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2196" /></a>One of the best features of the educational path that is becoming known as “unschooling” is the opportunity for “deep learning”, that is, delving into something of great interest with all your mind, heart and soul, to whatever extent your inspiration and/or need takes you, instead of being told it is now time to learn something else.  Even more so than her pursuit of learning the French language (see my post <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2010/05/30/the-unschool-pursuit-of-french/">“The Unschool Pursuit of French”</a>), our daughter found the opportunity to deep learn when she got involved in an Internet-based role-playing game community over the course of several years.<br />
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Starting in the fall of 2003 at age 14, in the midst of ninth grade (what would turn out to be her last year of school), her older brother Eric turned our daughter Emma on to a “massively multi-player online role-playing game” (or MMORPG) called <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Never_Winter_Nights">“Never Winter Nights”</a> which was his favorite among several such games that he had played.  This is one of those games where you create a character and the avatar (representation) of that character which you then navigate through the various environs of a fantasy world, along with or encountering other avatars controlled by other people logged into and playing the game.  You communicate with other players by typing, and little dialog bubbles appear above your avatar’s head.<br />
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The typical MMORPG like the very popular “World of Warcraft”, involves thousands of players logged on simultaneously to a fantasy world going on quests or killing creatures to gain points enough to move up to the next “level”.  The focus is almost entirely on the fighting and finding valuable objects, and rarely on the actual role-playing interactions between the characters.<br />
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Never Winter Nights allowed players to create their own worlds, and this one, that its creators dubbed “Caenyr” had maybe just a couple hundred players participating in it.  Being a smaller and more cohesive group, the players got to know each other, and living their characters lives in this very 21st Century virtual world wove intricate and extensive fantasy stories together.  There were also the player forums, where game participants could carry on more extensive written conversations with each other (in character) and further develop their shared story lines.  According to Emma&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>I could literally write out a scene in prose, with various other players linking their prose to mine, in threads that could range anywhere from a couple to a hundred posts long, depending on the content.</p></blockquote>
<p>It was in the forums where Emma was inspired and able to do extensive writing in the voice of her characters and began to find her muse as a fiction writer.<br />
After completing her last semester of conventional schooling in ninth grade Emma started unschooling, which meant her schedule was completely her own, with no particular daily routine she had to follow other than ones she set herself.  Since some of the other key players she collaborated with lived as far away as Great Britain, Sweden, and Australia, she preferred the nighttime for playing “in game”, and daytime for writing posts on the forums.  She would generally spend anywhere from 4 to 10 hours a day.<br />
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Emma found herself drawn particularly to the forums, and would write long posts (in character) in forum “threads” (a series of posts weaving the same story line) where other players were posting in character as well.   Sometimes she would spend hours writing one post alone, eager to make it well written and captivating, honing her budding craft as a writer in the process.  As she told me&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>A good role-play thread was the highlight of my day, and I&#8217;d constantly check to see if my writing partners had written their own pieces so I could follow on their heels.</p></blockquote>
<p>Although Emma created and brought to life many characters, her most memorable was a female elf she named “Eldeen Alencia”. Eldeen was an elven noble, who ran away from home and all the privilege it entailed, and struggled for many years, overcoming hardships and losses.  She ended up becoming the first mate on a pirate ship captained by another player (logging into the game from Australia, who she eventually flew across the Pacific to visit in person).  Emma spun the tale of the pirate elf for several years “in game” and on the forums through adventures of triumph and tragedy.<br />
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Woven into her tale were such things as a secret illuminati organization, a guild of duplicitous seamen known as “The Brotherhood”, a betrayal and subsequent blood-letting, a “complicated” love relationship between her and the captain (who unlike her character was a human), and all that sort of grist for pulp fantasy, swashbuckling and soap opera.<br />
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Day after day, Emma wrestled with the choices her character would make given the array of changing circumstances (introduced by the decisions of the other players) that confronted her buccaneer elf.  As Emma wrote me replying to my recent email, enquiring about the details of what I knew was a very formative experience for her&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>I made the choice to let her life unfold organically instead of doctoring what I thought would be a compelling story, and I could not predict all of the fabulous role-play that came out of that decision.  At times I was a mere passenger to what felt like her emotions and the decisions that stemmed from them&#8230; I learned how to lose myself in a character’s inner self, and be guided by their thoughts and emotions, often to the point of being moved by them myself.</p></blockquote>
<p>The simple wisdom on how to become a good writer is to write as much as you possibly can, and day and night Emma was in her room on the computer or talking across the world to her writing comrades (for free) using Skype.  She was not thinking of it as teaching herself how to write.  She was just having fun using her imagination to collaborate with others and build a grand tale.  It was learning while following ones bliss.  She had all the time she needed to settle into the creative writing process and develop her own style of prose, and learn the critical skills on how to collaborate creatively with others.<br />
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Eventually, she tired of some of her online community&#8217;s internal drama (out of game) and her real life situation began to change.  No longer a recluse in her room, she got involved in the Unitarian-Universalist older youth community (see my post <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2009/04/10/camps-cons-compasses/">“Camps, Cons &#038; Compasses”</a>) plus scoped out and got a job in her favorite little local coffee place (see my post <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2009/07/13/mom-pop-coffee-shop/">“Mom &#038; Pop Coffee Shop”</a>).  Now with some real-life adventures, she could not devote the same amount of time to her role-play.  Plus, she was frustrated that all of her writing was tied to the writing of others, and she did not have a story she could call her own.<br />
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Finally in 2008, at age 18, after not writing much of anything for a couple years, Emma got back to her computer and over the course of eight months made a first attempt at a science-fiction novel, writing a 20,000 word draft of an unfinished story.  Since then she has ditched the story, but kept the characters and the initial concept.  She enrolled in a novel writing class through UCLA extension.  After completing the class, she and a handful of her classmates started a writer’s group, which has met every week for the past six months and continues to do so.  With the help of her comrades, who act as both an audience and a sounding board, Emma feels confident enough to push forward on her novel, and is now about 40 pages into her manuscript.<br />
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Says Emma&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>I do have other interests, but this is my primary career goal at the moment. Of course I grew up in a rich environment full of great science fiction literature.  I&#8217;ve always loved escaping into other worlds with larger than life characters, but you can partly thank Eldeen for opening my eyes to my potential.  In fact, had I been able to pursue this interest from day one, instead of having to spend my time in school, I might have realized long before age 14 that I had the chops to be a fiction writer, and there’s a good chance my first novel would already be completed.</p></blockquote>
<p>I certainly did read her and her brother a heck of a lot of science-fiction books when they were little, and encouraged her to read other books once her own reading skills were up to the task.  By the age of 12 she was reading very sophisticated stuff like John Varley’s <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaea_trilogy">“Gaea Trilogy”</a> and Isaac Asimov’s seven-book “Foundation” series.  (See my posts <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2009/04/05/foundation/">&#8220;Foundation&#8221;</a> and <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/?s=mists+of+avalon">“The Mists of Avalon”</a>)<br />
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FYI&#8230; Emma (now 20) has a “day job” working at a small local woman-owned restaurant where she works two days a week waiting tables and two others as the manager.  She moved into her own apartment last December, leads her own busy life, and unfortunately we don’t see her as often as we would like.<br />
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Looking back at letting her leave school after ninth grade, I am more convinced that it was the right choice for her.  Unschooling is not for everyone, but it was the right ticket for our daughter.  Had we forced her to finish high school, she might have more knowledge of a range of subjects she was not so passionate about, but she would not be nearly so far along in pursuing her muse.  </p>
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		<title>Engaging High School Youth in their Own Education</title>
		<link>http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2010/06/19/empowering-high-school-youth/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jun 2010 21:55:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cooper Zale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So when you are bored and not really engaged with what is going on around you, is that a good learning environment for you?  It apparently isn’t for most of America’s high school students.

As reported in a June 15 article in Education Week, “Study: Teens Are Bored”&#8230;
Most high school students feel bored and disconnected [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Classroom-Circle-2.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Classroom-Circle-2-300x214.jpg" alt="" title="Classroom Circle 2" width="300" height="214" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2186" /></a>So when you are bored and not really engaged with what is going on around you, is that a good learning environment for you?  It apparently isn’t for most of America’s high school students.<br />
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As reported in a June 15 article in Education Week, <a href="http://www.edweek.org/ew/articles/2010/06/16/35report-b1.h29.html?tkn=MNZF30gKMM0XxBzbPq%2F38KOx4%2FyvbNrcIQR6&#038;print=1">“Study: Teens Are Bored”</a>&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>Most high school students feel bored and disconnected from school, according to a new survey of students from 103 high schools in 27 states.  Begun in 2004, the annual High School Survey of Student Engagement aims to take a pulse on teenagers’ attitudes toward school and learning. But the latest results, released last week, show that students were just as bored in 2009 as they have been every year since 2006.</p></blockquote>
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The study is <a href="http://ceep.indiana.edu/hssse/images/HSSSE_2010_Report.pdf">&#8220;Charting the Path from Engagement to Achievement: A Report on the 2009 High School Survey of Student Engagement&#8221;</a>, Conducted by the Center for Evaluation and Education Policy at Indiana University in Bloomington.  I think it is a critical bit of input into our needed effort to transform our education system in the 21st Century.<br />
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When presented with this sort of crisis, our public school systems tend to have very bureaucratic responses, with decision-making that emanates from a very high district, state or even (in the last couple decades with Goals 2000, NCLB and Obama’s “Race to the Top”) national level.  That response is generally well within a “box” of hierarchical “command and control” top-down edicts that are generally focused on fine-tuning mandated curriculum, further scripting how teachers interact with students, and generally continuing a perhaps three-decade trend that disempowers teachers and students as agents of educational change.<br />
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Among the most disturbing findings of this study is that only 41% of the students surveyed said they went to school because of what they learned there.  So why are the other 59% attending?  Please really think about that&#8230; Why are the other 59% of students attending?  What is their motivation for going to school?<br />
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Wouldn’t you agree that this study illuminates a very fundamental crisis in how are society is framing education and human development?  I don’t understand why more people don’t realize that we are looking at our youth in school more as the raw material for creating a product rather than key stakeholders in a process.  We are still generally caught up in the logic of hierarchical power-over thinking where well-meaning adults charged with stewarding youth feel they need to make all the significant decisions for those young people, or they are not doing their jobs.<br />
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I am particularly troubled by what I read about and see in most high schools (confirmed by this study), because I have seen a very different way of setting up a venue for the development of older youth.<br />
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<strong>An Alternative Approach for Older Youth</strong><br />
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I have worked with older youth not as a teacher but as an adult facilitator of Unitarian-Universalist youth-led camps and conferences.  We UUs are &#8220;process junkies&#8221; and we teach these group process techniques (which are designed to empower everyone to actively participate) to adults and youth.  We empower our older youth (high school age) to program, staff and run their camps and conferences themselves, with minimal adult intervention.<br />
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A youth governing board is elected each year by all the youth attending the district-wide summer camp.  That board meets quarterly and plans week-long camps and weekend conferences throughout the year.  The board appoints youth “deans” to coordinate each event.<br />
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The dean(s) put together their youth “staff”, which collectively develops the camp or conference curriculum and programming, each youth playing a specific role leading the various programmed events, working as counselors or “chaplains” to informally handle individual issues, handling registration, managing the budget and money, and in some cases even providing the food.  Programming can include adult or youth-led speakers and workshops, facilitated &#8220;rap sessions&#8221;, youth-led &#8220;worship services&#8221;, arts and crafts, dances, talent shows, hikes, and all the array of typical camp or conference curriculum.<br />
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This is all youth-designed and youth-led (other than say a particular workshop where an adult is invited to present and/or lead).  Both my now young-adult kids had the opportunity to participate in these events as attendees, staff and even as “deans”.  My daughter served on the youth board for two years, the second as the board president.  She co-coordinated one of the week-long summer camps.  My son designed and led several of the weekend conferences.<br />
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Just FYI, in case you are wondering or otherwise concerned, adults do attend these camps and conferences.  To meet insurance regulations, the events have to have at least one adult on site for every ten youth.  But the attending adults don’t run anything; they are basically there to be available in case there are significant calamities.<br />
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But even when a serious situation arises that calls for specific intervention, it is still handled mainly by the youth, with perhaps more significant adult participation than with the day-to-day stuff.  During the week-long summer camp my daughter led, two of the youth campers were found to have violated the camp rules for sexual conduct.  Over the course of two long nights without much sleep, my daughter, the rest of the camp youth staff and several of the attending adults met in long sessions with the campers who had broken the rules.  They were heard out, the issues were discussed in depth, and the appropriate consequences were agreed to by the assembled group.  The two campers were asked to leave camp the next morning and I recall were also not allowed to attend another camp for another six months.<br />
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I would like to testify to all of you the energy of empowered young people I am surrounded with at these events is so exhilarating and gives me such hope for the developmental possibilities of the human race.  How capable we are if given the opportunity, even at the age where some people still call us &#8220;children&#8221;, to run our own lives!<br />
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<strong>Applying this Paradigm to Public High Schools</strong><br />
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So I contrast my experience with empowered, highly capable UU youth with what I witness when I walk into a conventional high school and see how relatively un-empowered the kids are, how much of their potential for individual agency and wisdom and collective ability to problem solve and design and mnage an enriched environment is untapped and even suppressed.<br />
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I would suggest that at least some of these principles and methodologies for empowering youth be employed in high school environments to change the paradigm from youth as passive consumer and “product” of an educational process to active stakeholders in designing or at least managing their learning environment.  Even though the curriculum and programming of a year-long instructional high school can be very different than a week-long camp or weekend conference, the fundamentals of governance and programming are essentially the same, and can be done by youth alongside adults, if not led primarily by youth with adults as consultants, mentors and subject-matter experts.<br />
As I have noted before, there are schools that actually run using these kinds of youth-led principles and processes.  Most notable in the United States, and a model for other such schools elsewhere in our country and others, is the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sudbury_Valley_School">Sudbury Valley School</a> in Massachusetts.  Though this is a “free school” with individual students setting their own curriculum, the democratic empowerment of students can be applied to any type of school, whether instructional (like most conventional public and private schools), holistic (Dewey, Waldorf, Montessori, etc) or “free”.<br />
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So I would suggest that conventional high schools confront the crisis that this study highlights by implementing regular egalitarian and democratic process into the high school program.  Have facilitated discussions among the students about the issues of student engagement (or not) in school.  Solicit suggestions and actually try all or some of the suggestions that gain consensus.  Have students and teachers participate on the various governance committees within the individual schools and at the larger district level that manage these new initiatives and other suggested changes.<br />
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From my experience with the collective wisdom of the UU high-school-aged youth, I would suspect your typical high school class would be able to muster enough collective wisdom and “solutioning” to move the needle of student engagement at least some of the way in the right direction.  Give this disengaged majority of students a third avenue of expression beyond checking out or acting out.</p>
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		<title>The Unschool Pursuit of French</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2010 22:57:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cooper Zale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I believe there is something profoundly different about an internally motivated and self-driven pursuit of a body of knowledge, as compared to an externally imposed requirement to learn something, and in an educational venue not necessarily of ones choosing.  I think this fact is lost on an education establishment that continues to provide essentially [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_2135" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Old-Montreal.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Old-Montreal-300x195.jpg" alt="" title="Old Montreal" width="300" height="195" class="size-medium wp-image-2135" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The Old Montreal neighborhood where Emma &#038; Riva attended the language immersion school</p></div>I believe there is something profoundly different about an internally motivated and self-driven pursuit of a body of knowledge, as compared to an externally imposed requirement to learn something, and in an educational venue not necessarily of ones choosing.  I think this fact is lost on an education establishment that continues to provide essentially just one educational environment, which is an OSFA (one size fits all) set of conventional instructional schools.<br />
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Some students can do some of their necessary life learning in such an instructional classroom, featuring a formalized environment with tests and grades.  But more self-initiated and self-directed learning (which is generally minimal in our conventional OSFA education system), has the added bonus of giving the learner confidence of their own ability to muster the courage, master the logistics and enjoy the adventure of their own pursuit of knowledge.  My daughter Emma’s pursuit of learning the French language is a case in point.<br />
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In 2003 starting her first year of high school (which would turn out to be her last year of conventional school) our daughter Emma decided to take French towards fulfilling her language requirement.  Like every other class she took that year, a foreign language was mandated (by the State of California), but unlike her math, history, English and “World of Art” classes at least she could choose Spanish and French and she chose the latter.  Though she generally found the school an unsatisfactory learning environment for her, and unleashed herself from school after that 9th grade year, she continued with a determination to learn the language.<br />
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During her first year of unschooling (which conventionally would have been her 10th grade year) she struggled with what to do to continue learning French.  The most readily available option (outside of conventional high school) was to take French at one of the local community colleges, since high school age kids in California can take community college classes for free.  But Emma, now age 15, was still perhaps a bit intimidated by taking a class with young adults, so she passed on that option for the year.  She focused that year instead on what was her burning interest, reading classic sci-fi and fantasy novels we had recommended, and developing a fantasy pirate character in a multi-player role-playing game on the Internet.<br />
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But in the fall of 2005, now 16, she enrolled in French 2 at Valley Community College along with her best friend Riva who was also homeschooling.  She attended the twice a week class for the entire semester and did well enough on the tests to pass the class.  But she found the classroom setting intimidating when it came to actually speaking the language in front of the teacher and classmates.  Emma has had a history of discomfort when being viewed by others when she does not feel she is at her absolute best.  She felt that everyone else in the class was better with the language than she was, which made her reticent to display her lesser skill.  She took the French 3 class at Valley College in January of 2006, and again experienced the same limitation in this academic setting.<br />
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I did find it of note that she was particularly interested in the minutia of grammar (past perfect, past imperfect, etc.) since she had learned her native English without being exposed to the names of these structural components (or had not been interested when it was covered in some previous English class).  Emma found that she excelled at the grammatical structures while her friend Riva was faster at comprehending and forming sentences, even if they were not perfectly put together.  The two young women would joke with each other that together they were the perfect French speaker.<br />
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After completing the community college classes, toward a more organic learning environment for mastering the French language, Emma and Riva plotted to do something way outside the box.  Riva’s mom had found out about a program called WOOF (Worldwide Opportunities on Organic Farms), that matched up volunteers with organic farmers around the world that would give those volunteers free room and board in exchange for doing farm-work.  Riva and Emma decided to sign up to work on a farm in the French-speaking Canadian province of Quebec for three weeks to hopefully get some French immersion experience.<br />
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Still just 16, the two young women flew by themselves to Quebec, spent the first night at a youth hostel, and then took a two hour bus ride the next day into the country, and were picked up at the bus stop by their host, Louis.  They were given fairly rustic accommodations in a room in the barn converted to a makeshift bedroom, which they had to share at times during their three weeks in residence with various insect and small mammal critters.  The couple spoke French, but also English, so though Emma and Riva were seeking immersion in the former language, the couple often spoke to them in the latter to make sure they understood detailed instructions for planting and harvesting the medicinal plants, which included lemon balm, hibiscus, clover, along with vegetables that were not sold but harvested and eaten by the farmers.<br />
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Particularly difficult and memorable, was helping Louis plant stinging nettles, which are used to make holistic medicines for treating arthritis, anemia, hay fever, kidney problems, and pain.  Consistent with their name, the plants have little venomous spikes that make them hard to handle.  While Emma and Riva were in residence, they worked for long hours day after day with their host planting the little seedlings.<br />
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He employed a somewhat primitive planting machine that he attached to the back of a tractor, that gave you 20 seconds to place a small stinging nettle seedling in an open box that would shut and then move to deposit it into the ground.  Having the calluses from much experience working with these plants, their host could pick up the individual seedlings easily with his bare hands.  For Emma and Riva (two city kids without the requisite calluses) it was no easy task, as they could not touch the nettles and had to wear gloves and try to grab individual plants from a big bunch.  Sometimes they would still get stung through the gloves, leaving a small patch of white on the skin that burned for several minutes.  It was one of those experiences that made for a great story to be told later, but was grueling at the time.<br />
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Another memorable experience was when their hosts went off for the weekend and left the two young women to mind the farm.  Their main chore while the owners were gone was to feed the rabbits and the chickens.  They had already gotten up to speed on this task before their hosts left for the weekend, but unbeknownst to the two, another friend of the farmers had left three geese and three roosters (all huge for the slaughter and one of the roosters quite ill) in the chicken coop.<br />
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The next morning, when Emma and Riva went out to feed the hens, they were surprised to find these huge and unidentified birds aggressively squawking and marching around the enclosure.  By the next day they were again shocked to find the one (sick) rooster nestled unmoving under a tree surrounded by flies.  All this happening while they were reading on the Internet about the growing bird-flu epidemic.  They tried unsuccessfully to call their hosts, and continued the rest of the weekend in a panic until the couple returned.<br />
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Their hosts chuckled at the incident and that they had forgotten to tell them that their neighbors had left the geese and roosters, including the infirm one.  One more story that was much better in the retelling than the initial living through.<br />
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So after their three weeks as newbie farmers, the two young women spent their last week in Quebec City at a youth hostel before returning to Los Angeles.  They had learned some French, but had had other perhaps more compelling developmental experiences.  Emma regaled her mom and I for days after her return with the various tales from their odyssey.<br />
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The next spring, now 17 and still seeking the mother load of the quintessential French language learning environment, Emma and Riva enrolled in a French language immersion program in Montreal for a seven-week summer program (blessed with families with the resources to help them pay for this odyssey).  Emma was particularly attracted to it because it was not academically oriented with tests and such, but featured four hours of language immersion with a teacher each morning and then afternoon field trips out into the community to practice language skills in the real world.<br />
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For the seven weeks they were enrolled in the program, Emma and Riva lived about a mile-and-a-half or so from the small campus in a tiny single apartment.  Each morning they would walk to their morning session, which included maybe a half-dozen other students, all older than they were.  A couple afternoons a week, their teachers would take them out into the surrounding neighborhood so they could speak the language in typical real-life venues like stores, museums and restaurants.  Emma liked this learning environment better because the teachers treated them more like peers, and tailored their lessons to their students’ proficiency level as best they could.<br />
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Again it was a lasting experience, and this time round they learned a lot of the language.  As homeschooled youths who did not have any immediate plans to go to college, it also gave them that experience of living away from home with other fellow students.  For Emma and Riva, having the teacher in the “coach” role to keep them focused on speaking the language was most effective for their learning process.  Emma also had her 18th birthday there, and under Canadian law was able to drink her first legal alcohol.<br />
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In 2008, about a year after the Montreal trip, a friend of Riva’s mother who had taught French was now out of a job.  So Emma and Riva decided to help him out and agreed to pay him to tutor them for 90 minutes every week.  They met in a coffee shop, and Emma found it to be a very non-intimidating and completely personalized way of improving her language skills.  He would give them articles about French current events to read and suggestions for French movies to watch via Netflix, and then they would discuss them in French at their next meeting.  Emma shared with me that she found this relaxed and informal environment much better than the Community College classroom where she had always been constrained by a fear of failure.<br />
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Today, Emma does not have much chance to speak the language (unless a French-speaking customer comes into her restaurant).  But she feels that she has enough grounding that she would pick it back up quickly if she ever returns to the French-speaking world.<br />
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The State of California requirement (that all high school students take a foreign language) contributed to her choosing to study a foreign language, Emma’s pursuit of French (beyond that first year in high school) was learning driven by the learner and not by external requirements.  If Emma had stayed in high school, she could have simply met the State requirement and then just left it at that.  But she really wanted to learn to speak, and in collusion with her friend, kept trying different interesting avenues to make it so.<br />
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This was not only a learning experience, but a self-directed adventure, which is in my mind the best kind of learning experiences you can have.  You not only have the opportunity to learn the content you were seeking, but also just generally gain confidence in your ability to chart your own course through trial and error.  Emma and her friend Riva learned probably as much about doing research and dealing with logistical issues as they did about the French language.   In the end, those things may in fact be more important to their lives than their ability to speak French. </p>
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		<title>Over Consuming College in an Over Consuming Society?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 03:23:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cooper Zale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My son Eric sent me a link to a May 15 New York Times piece by Jacques Steinberg, “Plan B: Skip College”, where the author challenges, or at least questions, the idea that the best path forward for all high school graduates is to go to four-year college.  Steinberg cites statistics that only half [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/College-Tuition-2.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/College-Tuition-2.jpg" alt="" title="College Tuition 2" width="300" height="300" class="alignright size-full wp-image-2081" /></a>My son Eric sent me a link to a May 15 <em>New York Times</em> piece by Jacques Steinberg, <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/16/weekinreview/16steinberg.html">“Plan B: Skip College”</a>, where the author challenges, or at least questions, the idea that the best path forward for all high school graduates is to go to four-year college.  Steinberg cites statistics that only half of those who began a four-year bachelor’s degree program in the fall of 2006 will get that degree within six years, according to the latest projections from the Department of Education.  It made me wonder that in a society where people are prone to over consume those items deemed by advertising and cultural norms to be “needs”, we may be over consuming college as well.<br />
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(See a lot of discussion of this piece on <a href="http://www.dailykos.com/story/2010/5/16/867042/-Over-Consuming-College-in-an-Over-Consumption-Society">DailyKOS</a>.)<br />
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Is college the only good path forward for older youth these days after they complete high school?  Certainly President Obama thinks so, as he pitches the OSFA (one size fits all) college for everyone at commencements and other venues around the country.  But, according to Steinberg&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>A small but influential group of economists and educators is pushing another pathway: for some students, no college at all. It’s time, they say, to develop credible alternatives for students unlikely to be successful pursuing a higher degree, or who may not be ready to do so.
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<p>As a big supporter of “many paths” rather than “one size fits all”, I applaud this group, going against the conventional wisdom of our culture.  I’d like to see all our youth have the chance to be successful, to transition into adulthood and find work and build a balanced life that leverages their unique interests and talents, and allows them to make a significant contribution to the larger community.  But I don’t believe any one path, such as a conventional academic high school leading to an academic four-year college, can possibly be right for everyone.  I can’t even fathom how anyone, including President Obama, would think that it could be.<br />
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Getting back to my initial thought, I think I for one may have over-consumed college.  Even though my BS in Computer Science was a critical item on my resume to get my first (relatively high-paying) corporate IT job, it was my second bachelor’s degree (received at age 31) and not my first (received at age 23).  I had spent five years (and lucky for me financed mostly by financial needs grants from the State of Michigan) getting my first degree in Speech, with a concentration in TV and film production.<br />
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If I had had to borrow the money (and particularly at today’s higher costs for a college education) it may well not have been worth it, from a financial point of view.  I spent the next five years after obtaining that first degree doing low-paying jobs, but work (including as a community organizer) that was very meaningful to me developmentally, and I think I would have been hobbled financially if I had had to pay back significant loans.  The truth is that having gotten my degree had very little to do with the skills I needed to do these jobs, I had learned most of those skills outside any school or academic program.<br />
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According to Steinberg&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>College degrees are simply not necessary for many jobs. Of the 30 jobs projected to grow at the fastest rate over the next decade in the United States, only seven typically require a bachelor’s degree, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics.</p></blockquote>
<p>It was the acquisition of my second bachelor’s degree in Computer Science, a path forward I launched into in 1983 at age 28, that really leveraged the money I spent for that degree (all my own money this time, but still not as dear as college is today) towards a worthwhile economic return in terms of the kind of salary I could command in the corporate world.<br />
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I think I needed to have those seven years of life experience outside of school, including various lower paying jobs in the real world, to develop the worldly wisdom to choose this path forward, including the investment (for the second time) in a four-year degree.  If I had been saddled with significant loans from getting my first degree, I don’t know if I would have made it.<br />
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Attending college today is more of a high-stakes endeavor, particularly for those people who can’t get significant academic scholarships.  Says Steinberg&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>Whether everyone in college needs to be there is not a new question; the subject has been hashed out in books and dissertations for years. But the economic crisis has sharpened that focus, as financially struggling states cut aid to higher education.</p></blockquote>
<p>In today’s world, more and more, older youth, young adults, and their families are paying a significantly higher percentage of the cost of a college education.  I see too many of my son’s and daughter’s peers sink a lot of their family’s or borrowed money in a four-year college right after high school, coming to realize two or three years into that higher education, that maybe they picked the wrong major, or this otherwise wasn’t the right path forward for them.  They may in fact have over-consumed education, without enough real world adult experience to best leverage their educational investment.<br />
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According to Steinberg&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>Among those calling for such alternatives are the economists Richard K. Vedder of Ohio University and Robert I. Lerman of American University, the political scientist Charles Murray, and. They would steer some students toward intensive, short-term vocational and career training, through expanded high school programs and corporate apprenticeships.</p></blockquote>
<p>From my experience, and the stories I’ve heard from my kids’ friends, this sounds like a really good idea.  Some 17 and 18-year-old kids are clear about what they want to be when they grow up, but many are not.  Let’s give kids transitioning into the age of majority more initial options, beyond a four-year academic education to get them into the real world of adult life, including initial careers.<br />
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If one can start an adult life with at least a living wage and garner real world experience and wisdom, then I think a person can build a much better strategy, perhaps later in their mid twenties, towards investing in the right, now more pricey, four-year college towards a more high-powered, high-paying career.<br />
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According to James E. Rosenbaum, an education professor at Northwestern, as quoted in Steinberg’s article&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>“I’m not saying don’t get the B.A,” he said. “I’m saying, let’s get them some intervening credentials, some intervening milestones. Then, if they want to go further in their education, they can.”
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<p>I think I agree.</p>
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		<title>Techies</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 23:47:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cooper Zale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trying and failing&#8230; some people say there is no better way to educate oneself.

Yet we have an education system for our youth built around externally orchestrated programming for success.  Educators and savvy parents collude to prepare students for successful testing to get into the best possible college to guarantee the best possible chance for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_2059" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 282px"><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Eric-on-Mountain.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Eric-on-Mountain-272x300.jpg" alt="" title="Eric on Mountain" width="272" height="300" class="size-medium wp-image-2059" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Eric in 2009</p></div>Trying and failing&#8230; some people say there is no better way to educate oneself.<br />
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Yet we have an education system for our youth built around externally orchestrated programming for success.  Educators and savvy parents collude to prepare students for successful testing to get into the best possible college to guarantee the best possible chance for success.<br />
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Our son Eric chose at age 14 to abandon this programmed path of schooling for success in favor of his own self-directed path that some critics of unschooling would call the road to failure.  It did turn out to be the road to failure, failure of a major self-initiated project, but in terms of real learning, a bonanza for our son.  We called it his “unschool graduate school”.<br />
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<span id="more-2056"></span>Eric reached age 18 in 2004 after four years of unschooling with the inklings and instincts of an entrepreneur.  It was his goal to launch a successful game design business and using his people skills and wide circle of talented friends, pulled a team together to cut their teeth on designing a first-person shooter game based on cold war sci-fi kitsch.  His team included a programmer, a graphic artist, a digital musician, a business savvy person, and himself as the creator of the game world and its back-story.  Eric made it clear that this initial effort was not to develop and sell a commercial product, but just to develop an initial game for all of them to learn the ropes.<br />
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After some months of sessions on weekends and late into the night their effort ran into a number of problems, including a programmer with not enough the gaming programming experience.  On later reflection he told me that, “None of us knew what we were doing, and those of us leading the project were unable to move past the obstacles we were presented with.”  So the project was put on indefinite hold, and Eric took an entry level job as a video game tester and worked in the “salt mines” of the burgeoning game industry for a couple years, making contacts along the way, but not finding his career path forward within these large companies.<br />
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In 2007 the next plan to hatch was a collaboration between Eric and two of his close friends.  His friends were involved in setting up and maintaining Apple computers and computer networks for businesses in the entertainment industry, but felt the company they were working for did a poor job of customer service.  They envisioned starting their own company to compete, having Eric, with his people and organizational skills, managing their operational and logistical issues as the small firm’s Chief Operating Officer.  A fourth partner was brought in with sales experience, and plans started to come together to launch their company, “Techies”.  They opened for business in April 2008, of course not knowing that the deluge of the “Great Recession” would soon be upon them, their customers, and everyone else.  All the partners had borrowed or invested significant amounts of their own money to try and make this dream a reality.<br />
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Though their company eventually suspended operations, after a little less than two years fighting to stay in business, the nearly three year life cycle they went through from conception through dissolution was a transformative learning experience for all the partners, and particularly for Eric.  He started as a talented and thoughtful young man full of big ideas and dreams and a handful of yet unproven skills.  Three years later, though the business ultimately failed, his mom and I watched him become a talented small business executive, with a burgeoning skill set and experience, and the confidence to tackle any sort of crisis or new challenge thrown at him.<br />
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At its zenith, Techies employed its four partners, plus two other employees (one handling the front desk and phones, the other doing pick-ups and deliveries) and a couple other contractors to help with the technical work.  They had a dozen businesses and a number of individuals as customers.  Their shop in Hollywood was a beautifully designed space built out by one of Eric’s other friends who was a talented contractor.  I am no small business expert, but from everything I could see they had a good business plan, talented staff, and were doing everything right to be successful.<br />
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Eric, the math-phobic kid who six years early had written “Fuck Math” as his only answer on a math test, successfully managed Techies accounts payable and receivable, purchasing, payroll and personnel.  He worked with their accountant and lawyer, including managing their response to being sued at one point by one of their competitors (a suit apparently with little merit but designed to try and force them out of business).  He also wrote most of their procedures and marketing materials and played a critical role wrangling his other partners and resolving issues between them.<br />
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This kid who I could barely drag out of bed in the morning to go to middle school worked nine to ten hour days, five or six days a week for two solid years to do his part to make Techies run.  This unschooled young person, who some would write-off as an “eighth-grade dropout”, orchestrated everything with grace and forbearance (at least as far as I could see), and I think the fact that the four partners and the two laid-off employees are all still friends today is a testament to the quality of his skill and efforts.<br />
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That made it doubly tragic when their trend of growing monthly sales reversed in the fall of 2008 when the financial crisis and a festering potential strike by the actor’s unions ground their clients’ businesses to a standstill.  Securing some additional loans from family and friends, they managed to hang on for another year, waiting for the recession storm to finally pass.  It was Eric who had to layoff their employees and the partners one by one (including himself) and then make the final call to pull the plug on their enterprise.  He also had to orchestrate the shutting down of the business, including working with their customers to transition them to another vendor and liquidating the company’s assets.<br />
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Eric turned 24 the month after Techies shut its doors.  I recall myself at that age, having graduated a year earlier with my university BA and moved to Los Angeles, stumbling around in Hollywood doing minimum wage film business “gofer” jobs.  He was way farther along in his development than I had been at that age.  For a young person you could not pay to sit in a classroom, this had truly been his “unschooling graduate school”, and he had the loans to repay to prove it!<br />
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Liberated in the middle of eighth grade to be his auto-didact self, he had focused all his “unschooled” learning on this business, presenting his own culminating “thesis” of sorts struggling to hold the new enterprise together in the economic storm of a serious recession&#8230; and ultimately failing to do so, but learning so much for the next go.<br />
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From a young age, the kind of work they invented for him to do at school (of no consequence to anyone except his teacher in passing who graded it) was not the kind of work that was of much interest to him.  He longed to live a real life in the real world, roll the dice and see what he could do.  Neither his mom nor I had had the entrepreneurial gene, talking him out of his childhood hair-brained schemes, including collaborating with his neighborhood friend to draw pictures and go door to door selling them to the neighbors.  But finally liberated from the at times arbitrary constraints we put on our “youth”, he finally took his first real opportunity to go for it.<br />
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Real learning is not always pretty, and at times can be some of the most uncomfortable “sausage making” you could ever bear to witness, and particularly so for a parent when your kid is involved.  You long as a parent to somehow step in, pull some strings and make everything a success&#8230; proud and happy.  But any fears we might have had that the failure of Techies would crush a fragile young spirit were quickly proven to be unfounded.  Life goes on and so does Eric.  He has a new job (working for someone else, at least for a while) and takes every opportunity to bring his new wealth of experience to bear in this latest undertaking.</p>
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		<title>Sweathogs, Heathers &amp; Mean Girls</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 May 2010 22:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cooper Zale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Conventional patriarchal wisdom does not necessarily think about young women who are coming of age developing a “thick skin” to help them navigate the slings and arrows of life.  Women are supposed instead to be soft, receptive and relational rather than “tough bitches”.  But our daughter Emma learned to toughen up to survive [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Mean-Girls.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Mean-Girls-212x300.jpg" alt="" title="Mean Girls" width="212" height="300" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2047" /></a>Conventional patriarchal wisdom does not necessarily think about young women who are coming of age developing a “thick skin” to help them navigate the slings and arrows of life.  Women are supposed instead to be soft, receptive and relational rather than “tough bitches”.  But our daughter Emma learned to toughen up to survive a gauntlet of challenging female classmates, and that thicker skin facilitated her overcoming her shyness.  Her experience recalled for me the cliques of girls in the movies <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mean_girls">“Mean Girls”</a> and <a href="http://">“Heathers”</a>, and the very tough class of students known as the “Sweathogs” in the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Welcome_back_kotter">“Welcome Back Kotter”</a> situation comedy of the late 1970s.  When I discussed it with Emma recently, she said it was definitely the low point in a life that she has generally found blessed and wonderful.<br />
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Starting in the fall of 2000, Emma attended a small school for her three middle school years (see my piece on <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2010/02/24/alternative-charter-school/">“Alternative Charter School”</a>).  Emma was one of some twenty kids that were part of the inaugural sixth grade class, the biggest fish in this small pond.  Since there was only one class per grade level, this group was basically together for three years.<br />
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Emma’s class got off to a very rough start.  The roster of students was chocked full of kids with rebellious instincts (including this clique of four or five girls) stoked by years of tight external behavior control in their previous schools.  The dynamic of this group was a sort of perfect storm that (to mix metaphors) ate teachers for breakfast.  And in fact, their initial teacher did not last the first semester, and their second only until about spring break.  Finally the program director, an immensely talented and skilled teacher himself, ended up filling the void leading the class for the remainder of the second semester of Emma’s sixth-grade class.<br />
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Amidst the rest of the cast of characters in this class, the members of this clique of five girls was reminiscent of the 1988 Winona Rider and Christian Slater movie “Heathers”) were the cool kids and “alpha dogs” that the other girls in class looked up to and the boys (with their own burgeoning hormones) were fixated on.  The classroom dynamic was such a sideshow that it was often a much more compelling “curriculum” than the academic lesson plans.<br />
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Two of the girls in the clique were longtime friends of Emma from her pre-school and early elementary years.  One of those two was particularly gregarious and athletic, had been Emma’s best friend during those earlier years, and knew in great detail what made Emma tick and how to push her buttons.  They still accepted Emma as a peer, but were not academically focused like she was, and they harassed her endlessly about being such a good student.<br />
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Adding to the scope of this whole thing all the clique girls would invite Emma over to their houses on weekends, for overnights, and for birthday parties.  This was her social circle, so she generally accepted, yet continued to suffer their slings and arrows even beyond the classroom.<br />
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Emma was a shy and sensitive kid, and acutely concerned about what others thought of her, including her teachers and her classmates.  She hated being in the spotlight if she was not at her absolute best.  She also had a strong sense of what was fair and just (particularly so because she had grown up with an older brother who she was always concerned was getting, and getting away with, more than she was).<br />
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In talking to her recently, she said that there were days when being subject to those girls’ cruel, petty games made her miserable, because she felt she could never win.<br />
She would find herself in the difficult position of wanting to continue to be accepted as a peer by the clique members, yet demonstrate to the teacher (to the clique’s disdain) her academic acumen.  She would suffer their scorn when she got all the questions right, and their incessant teasing when she got a question wrong.  She walked a tightrope of being rebellious enough against authority to keep the respect of the clique while doing well in her school work and being acknowledged by her teacher in that regard.<br />
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Emma would come home from school and share with us stories of how they would find stupid reasons to hate and ostracize each other temporarily, and then drag Emma into the middle of their battles and force her to take sides.  Emma (with her sense of caring and fair play) would stick up for the outcast.  But her support would usually go unacknowledged, and instead the outcast member would only be concerned about regaining the graces of the rest of the clique, even at Emma’s expense.<br />
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Sometimes when listening to her frustrated unburdening of harrowing tales I recalled my own difficult middle-school years trying to hang on to a cadre of so-called friends so I would not feel like a complete outcast and loser (see my piece on <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2009/01/14/staying-home/">“Staying Home”</a>).  These were friends of the ilk from the phrase, “With friends like this, who needs enemies”.<br />
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Her mom and I tried to be good listeners, which I have found is maybe the most important gift an adult (parent or otherwise) can give to a youth.  Yes we would suggest that she stick to her guns, be assertive and use “I” statements.  But we acknowledged that we did not have the answers to her thorny problems, only stories from our own youth, and our basic suggestions.  There was a shared understanding that this was her life, her issue, and that it could eventually be worked out.<br />
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And she did work it out.  By the second year, she had seen all their manipulative tricks repeatedly, and she was learning not to accept anything they said on face value.  By their last year together, she was figuring out that it was all their stuff, their issues, and really had little to do with who she was.  She was just their most convenient soft target, because she (for lack of another option) was making the effort to be their friend.<br />
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After three years the “Sweathogs” culminated and moved on (I suspect to the great relief of the school staff) and scattered to various high schools.  Once Emma did have the option of different circles of peers and friends, she did not make much of an effort to maintain friendships with any of the girls, though she was invited to and attended one or two of their later birthday parties.<br />
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When I emailed her an initial draft of this piece, Emma reviewed it and shared a lot more of her feelings from that time than I knew before (and which I’ve included above), since it is now water well under the bridge.  I was particularly struck by these words in her email&#8230;<br />
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I was a sensitive kid, who wanted to please everyone and wanted to be accepted, sometimes beyond any sort of moral code I had developed. I navigated as best I could, and it certainly helped that I had you two [her mom and I] to vent to at the end of the day.<br />
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Her former middle school classmates organized an informal reunion recently, which she attended.  About half the class was there, including her two main friends from the clique, and Emma observed that&#8230;<br />
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It felt just like middle school, with the addition of cheap booze and the fact that I was [now] witty, confident, and wise to all their silly games. They really hadn&#8217;t changed, with the exception of changes forced on them (having to get jobs, go to school, etc) and all of those things I so resented them for never came up, as if they weren&#8217;t important. In fact they giggled the whole time and were happy to include me.<br />
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From her perspective now seven years after middle school, Emma realized that the things they did that used to agonize her in the classroom (that they still were doing now) were learned behaviors that they had still not grown out of.  It became clear to her once again that it was not about her, it was all about them.<br />
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From my vantage point as her parent, finding and navigating by her inner compass has been a particular challenge for Emma, learning to substitute her own for others’ expectations.  But now at age twenty, she seems to have figured it out pretty well.  She is tough and cerebral, not a “sweetheart” (at least in my opinion) but still with that strong sense of fairness and caring for others.  Whenever I see her now she is poised, in control and looks her best (with her unique look, though reminiscent of Audrey Hepburn). She lives her life with intention, finding good jobs to make a living, pursuing her many interests and aptitudes, and building circles of friends now that are supportive of who she is.<br />
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She has become a person who is uniquely her self, which is about the best compliment I can give to anybody.  But I’m biased of course.</p>
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		<title>Taking Eric out of School</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 21:46:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cooper Zale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The recent piece on Good Morning America featuring a mom and dad who were unschooling their two kids, and the negative, rather than inquiring tone, that it was framed with, made me recall our own decision to let our son Eric unschool, rather than go to high school.  I wrote a piece about it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_2041" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 249px"><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Eric-Age-17.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Eric-Age-17-239x300.jpg" alt="" title="Eric Age 17" width="239" height="300" class="size-medium wp-image-2041" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Eric, age 17, three years into unschooling</p></div>The recent <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Parenting/parents-defend-radical-unschooling-instilling-proper-values/story?id=10422823">piece</a> on Good Morning America featuring a mom and dad who were unschooling their two kids, and the negative, rather than inquiring tone, that it was framed with, made me recall our own decision to let our son Eric unschool, rather than go to high school.  I wrote a piece about it in January of 2009, <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2009/01/03/unschooling-instead-of-high-schooling/">“Unschooling Instead of High Schooling”</a>, and I have reworked that piece below, based on additional thought, more feedback from Eric, and more water under the bridge&#8230;<br />
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We pulled Eric out of school in February 2000 at age 14 because it had become clear that he hated going to school every morning and had a profound incompatibility with the conventional instructional academic environment.  We had been considering doing it for a while, and Eric’s mom had done a fair amount of research on homeschooling on the Internet.  After pulling Eric out, which removed the most acute of his issues, Sally and I had tried initially to build a home curriculum that included the four standard academic areas – English, social studies, science and math. Eric, as it turns out, had other ideas.<span id="more-2040"></span><br />
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Prior to our radical decision, we researched alternative schools in our area (which were all private) but we could not afford the tuition, which was comparable to sending a kid to college.  Particularly because Eric was so burnt out and at his root such an “autodidact” (self-learner), we weren’t confident any academic environment would work for him at this point, particularly not now in the condition he was in.<br />
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Not quite really understanding yet that he was truly an autodidact, I initially thought I could build a better curriculum for him in the four standard subjects than the State of California could, then get him to follow it.  Now that he could set his own schedule and not have to get up early every morning (with never enough sleep) and be dragged off to school, my wise, creative and cleaver 45-year-old mind could come up with a curriculum that would entice Eric to learn the things I put in front of him.<br />
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So for English, I suggested great sci-fi books for him to read.  They were all ones I had read, so we could have discussions about the story, characters, and underlying issues of the human condition they addressed.  For social studies, since he had an interest in 20th Century history, I looked for historical movies to rent (like “Doctor Zhivago” and “Shindler’s List”) and scanned the TV listings for applicable History Channel shows.  Again, since I was pretty knowledgeable and interested in history, we could have great discussions about the themes and great figures.  For science, which I was not so into myself and not as inspired; I bought him one of those computer programs at Costco that claimed to cover all of middle-school science.<br />
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Math was the biggest challenge!  I knew he had become basically “math-phobic”, evidenced by several years of not doing any math homework and in utter frustration writing “Fuck Math” on his eighth-grade state math assessment test as his one and only answer on the Scantron form ready for a large number of multiple-choice answers, rather than his single, definitive “short answer”.  Again, the optimist in me thought that if I got him computer software that covered the math topics of algebra and geometry, and I made myself available as a tutor (since math had been my best subject in high school), that he would somehow do it.<br />
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Well&#8230; getting Eric out of the school environment did not change the fact that he wanted to learn what he was interested in, not what the State of California or his very cleaver and “esteemed parent” (as he sometimes addressed me when he had a favor to ask) thought he should and even might like to learn.  Eric basically holed up in his room all day on his computer, playing computer games.  It is what most parents think that their kids are intrinsically motivated to do rather than the much more worthwhile school work, lessons and other activities programmed for them.  And now here was our kid, left to his own devices, doing just that, day in and day out.<br />
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So still not getting it, I would pester him to read, watch the historical movies I rented and spend just a half-hour each day on his math and science software.  “Come on Eric!” I would say to him over and over, and he would look at me with that profound look he has and roll his eyes, then tell me he would try to do some work “a little later”.  I tried at first to think up rewards for doing some math and science work, but he would always choose to forgo it and grudgingly forfeit the reward, reframing the withheld reward as a punishment.  It seemed he would suffer any indignity to be able to make his own choices.<br />
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It did not take too long before I felt that I was just substituting myself for his teachers and principal trying to coax, coerce and cajole him to learn things he had not chosen to learn.<br />
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This was a very frustrating and anxiety-producing period for his mom and I. Was our son just going to hole up in his room for the rest of his life? Was he doomed to working at minimum wage jobs or being dependent of us? Had we totally failed as parents by not successfully practicing “tough love” (like Bill Cosby always adeptly managed to do on his sit-com) and force him to stay in school?<br />
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That all said&#8230; he did in fact read and enjoy the sci-fi books I suggested, watched with me a lot of those epic big-screen tellings of the tumultuous wars and other 20th Century events, and we had some of those great discussions I had imagined.<br />
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After starting to fight with him again every day about doing his schoolwork, like I had done before about homework when he was still going to school, I finally decided to give it up.  We had pulled him out of school to avoid this adversarial relationship (with its constant confrontations, stress and stalemate) and not just change its venue.<br />
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Luckily, Sally in her Internet research had read about an unorthodox form of learner-directed homeschooling referred to as “unschooling”.  It involved giving the kid an “enriched environment”, making suggestions and being available to facilitate, but essentially letting them pursue and learn what they wanted.  She and I discussed it and we both had reservations.  How would he learn what he needed to learn to eventually pass the high school equivalency test?  How would he ever be able to go to college, and if not, how would he make a living?  But what choice did we have, short of sending him off to some sort of “boot camp” type place if he resisted every other option?<br />
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Convinced that we lacked any other viable or affordable path, we finally decided to give it up, and we told Eric he could basically use his time as he saw fit.  We would suggest things that we thought would be of interest to him and facilitate his access to the information and activities that were.  When we laid out this new plan to him, I can just imagine him saying to himself, “Yeah, right”.<br />
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Sally had also read in her Internet research that kids transitioning from schooling to unschooling sometimes need a year or more to “deprogram”.  And sure enough, during that first year of “unschooling”, Eric spent most of his time alone in his room with the door closed playing games on his computer, decompressing and deprogramming, and testing us to make sure we didn’t have other schemes in store to get him to learn what he was supposed to.  Ten years later when I talk to him about that period, his memory of it is fuzzy.<br />
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Eric got to a point, somewhere in that transitional year, where he was complaining to us that he was bored, which initially scared us that maybe we had made a big mistake, and inspired us to again try to suggest “curriculum” for him, which he again resisted.  But now I see it as an important threshold, when he realized that he was ultimately responsible for his path forward.  When he was still in school he actively resisted “the man”, and at home initially it was more of a passive resistance to his parents’ curriculum.  Finally it was just him, and his choice.<br />
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At my suggestion, he got involved in the Unitarian-Universalist high school youth YRUU program and met a lot of wonderful unique kids like himself.  He also got deeply involved in several online youth communities on the Internet, even getting on the volunteer governance “Board” of one.  He wrote a virtual play that was performed online by all the avatars of the people participating in this particular Dungeons &#038; Dragons type fantasy community.  He also participated in a yearly drama camp and made a circle of friends there as well.<br />
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Within three years of “opting out” Eric had built at least three circles of community – YRUU, drama/theater, and online gaming – where he had friends all over Southern California and literally all over the world.  He rediscovered (or at least his parents rediscovered) that he was a very social person who was developing very acute social skills.<br />
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Through those years of unschooling, basically through the time when he would have otherwise graduated from high school, he got his feet back under him.  He recovered his self-esteem and started to morph into one of the most charming, centered, caring, and well-spoken young persons you could ever care to meet.  At the same time, our relationship with him was no longer adversarial and instead becoming one of mutual trust.  It all happened slowly, but in the end it was pretty shocking.   We gave Eric his space, gave him love, just a little bit of advice here and there and he somehow found his own way forward to blossom.<br />
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His young adult years have been no easy path forward for him, but then it has been no less of a challenge for his friends that have stayed in school.  Eric has peers who graduated from four-year colleges who are working as baristas at Starbucks.  In this very difficult economy we have had for the past couple years, it has been a tough slog for all young adults entering the workforce.<br />
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For a couple years Eric managed to get jobs as a video game tester in that burgeoning industry.  If he had wanted to stick with it, he could have “moved up the ladder” and become a lead tester and then a testing team manager.<br />
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Two years ago, Eric pulled three other partners together and started a business called “Techies” setting up computer systems for video editing businesses in Hollywood and also repairing Apple computers.  Eric was the Chief Operating Officer, handling all the personnel, logistical and financial issues, and was depended on to be the cool head that would hold the other partners (with the more “uber-geek” technical skills) together.  Though I feel their business was well conceived and executed, after two years it succumbed to the tide of the “Great Recession”.<br />
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Ten years from the date we pulled him out of school in eighth grade, it is amazing how much he has developed and how far he has come.  Though he has had much love and support from parents, grandparents, an extended family and a large circle of friends, he has been responsible for charting his own course and steering his own ship.  And to continue the metaphor, there have been plenty of rough seas and dangerous shoals along the way.  But he has made it through, and I now think I can finally exhale, and realize that this seemingly crazy unschooling idea really worked, at least for one kid, and probably would be a good path for others as well.<br />
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The whole experience turned Eric’s mom (my partner Sally) and I into supporters of unschooling, certainly a very unorthodox educational path and not for everyone, but one that works very well, particularly for kids who like to march to their own drum beat.  While our son recovered his sense of self and took full responsibility for his path forward, we saw other strongly self-directed kids like Eric who were getting brutalized and beaten down trying to fit into the standard instructional routine of school.  That said&#8230; there were plenty other of Eric’s peers who navigated those same schools quite well and went off to and graduated from various colleges and universities around the country.<br />
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But that path was not the one for Eric, and his mom and I are grateful we figured it out when we did, and did what we did.  It was not pretty, but it seems to have been the right thing to do.</p>
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		<title>Education Alternatives 102: Mann, Dewey &amp; Lane</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 02:49:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cooper Zale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Following up on my recent “School Alternatives 101” post, I want to share some quotes from three great educational innovators who were “parents” (in this case, all “fathers”) of the three types of educational alternatives I talked about in my post.  I want to focus on their visions’ of who drives the educational process, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_2027" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Mann-Dewey-Lane.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Mann-Dewey-Lane-300x189.jpg" alt="" title="Mann Dewey &amp; Lane" width="300" height="189" class="size-medium wp-image-2027" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Education Innovators Horace Mann, John Dewey &#038; Homer Lane</p></div>Following up on my recent <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2010/04/02/school-alternatives-101/">“School Alternatives 101”</a> post, I want to share some quotes from three great educational innovators who were “parents” (in this case, all “fathers”) of the three types of educational alternatives I talked about in my post.  I want to focus on their visions’ of who drives the educational process, which I believe is a key way to distinguish these three approaches from each other.  This may seem like “education-wonk” stuff to some of you, but I think it is really important, even from a parent’s point of view, when considering educational options for your and other kids.<span id="more-2004"></span><br />
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The three innovators I am talking about are&#8230;<br />
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1. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Horace_Mann">Horace Mann</a>, the progenitor of the American public school system in the early 19th Century.<br />
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2. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Dewey">John Dewey</a>, who set the philosophical basis of American secular/progressive/liberal education in the early 20th Century.<br />
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3. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homer_Lane">Homer Lane</a>, a lesser know Briton and contemporary of Dewey, who was the mentor of A.S. Neill and the “free school” movement.<br />
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The inspiration for this post was an article by Ronald Swartz in the most recent Spring 2010 <a href="http://www.educationrevolution.org/aeromagazine.html"><em>Education Revolution Magazine</em></a> (which is edited by my friend and colleague Ron Miller).  Swartz’s piece is titled “John Dewey and Homer Lane: The Odd Couple among Educational Theorists” and focuses on this issue of who drives the educational process.  According to Swartz, “Dewey and Lane are the founding fathers of two distinct twentieth century educational reform movements.”<br />
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Dewey and Lane represent key “parents” to two of the educational alternatives, “holistic” and “free” schools that I talked about in my previous piece.  To enhance and complete the comparison, I think it is useful to compare the ideas of these two to the words of Horace Mann, a Unitarian (like me), and an educational visionary who has had arguably more impact on the American education system over the past 180 years than anyone else.  Besides his role launching universal mandatory education of youth in our country, his words speak clearly to the vision of “instructional” schools, the alternative that is clearly predominant in America.<br />
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Again, in reading their quotes, we are looking at the process of education, that is, who drives the direction of a kid’s education.  Every kid is different, and if the kid that you are concerned about does not seem to be thriving in the conventional instructional school, you may want to try and find and consider a holistic or even a free school.<br />
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Note that the <em>italics </em>below are all mine to highlight certain words or phrases in their quotes.<br />
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<strong>Horace Mann and State-Driven Instructional Education</strong><br />
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I get my Mann quotes from a site called <a href="http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/h/horace_mann.html">“Brainy Quote”</a>&#8230;<br />
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On education as a tool of societal social engineering&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>
1. A house without books is like a room without windows. <em>No man has a right </em>to bring up his children without surrounding them with books, if he has the means to buy them.</p>
<p>2. Education <em>alone </em>can conduct us to that enjoyment which is, at once, best in quality and infinite in quantity.</p>
<p>3. Education is our <em>only </em>political safety. Outside of this ark all is deluge.</p>
<p>4. Education then, beyond all other devices of human origin, is the <em>great equalizer </em>of the conditions of men, the balance-wheel of the social machinery.</p></blockquote>
<p>On the moralistic basis for education as social engineering and reform&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>5. Let us not be content to wait and see what will happen, but give us the determination to <em>make the right things happen</em>.</p>
<p>6. Be <em>ashamed </em>to die until you have won some victory for humanity.</p>
<p>7. If evil is inevitable, how are the wicked accountable? Nay, why do we call men wicked at all? Evil is inevitable, but is also <em>remediable</em>.</p>
<p>8. Jails and prisons are the complement of schools; so many less as you have of the latter, so many more must you have of the former.</p></blockquote>
<p>And on the teaching process&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>9. A teacher who is attempting to teach without inspiring the pupil with a desire to learn is hammering on cold iron.</p>
<p>10. <em>Manners </em>easily and rapidly mature into morals.</p></blockquote>
<p>I can clearly see in Mann’s quotes his vision that education must be driven by the state, and in fact he was successful in getting his home state of Massachusetts to pass the first universal compulsory education, which inspired other states to follow.  Schools alone can save our democracy by instructing all kids on exactly what they need to know to be righteous American citizens.<br />
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I think it is particularly interesting that the father of our public school system was not at all about reading, writing and arithmetic (which later became the staples of public education and are the featured skills today in most high-stakes testing).  Mann was about instructing all of America’s children – Protestant, Catholic or Heathen – in good non-sectarian Protestant values – on which to build a unifying moral basis for American society (Protestant style, of course).<br />
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It was American Catholics, migrating to the U.S. in ever greater numbers throughout the 19th Century, who led the fight to eventually remove this religious indoctrination from the public schools.  It was replaced by the “Three Rs” (which facilitated the education of the worker-bees of the Industrial Revolution) that still dominate state-standardized instructional education today.<br />
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<strong>John Dewey and the Teacher-Driven Holistic Vision</strong><br />
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From Dewey’s book, Experience and Education&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>1. Unless a given experience leads out into a field previously unfamiliar no problems arise, while problems are the stimulus to thinking&#8230; it is part of the <em>educator’s responsibility</em> to see equally to two things: First, that the problem grows out of the conditions of the experience being had in the present, and that it is within the range of the capacity of students; and secondly, that it is such that it <em>arouses in the learner an active quest for information and for production of new ideas</em>.</p></blockquote>
<p>From Dewey’s essay, “The Child and the Curriculum”&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>2. The value of the formulated wealth of knowledge that makes up the course of study is that it may enable the educator to determine the environment of the child, and thus, by indirection, to direct.  <em>Its primary value, its primary indication, is for the teacher, not the child.</em>  It says to the teacher; Such and such are capacities, the fulfillments, in truth and beauty and behavior, open to these children.  Now see to it that day by day the conditions are such that their own activities move inevitably in this direction, toward such culmination of themselves.
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<p>Swartz notes in his article that, “For Dewey, the teacher was a behind-the-scenes authority who should help students learn those ideas and values which society considered to be important.”  Dewey added this element of the teacher as the highly talented artist that would direct their students own sense of inquiry to obtain the knowledge that society wanted to have, which is beyond Mann’s more external vision of compulsion.<br />
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<strong>Homer Lane and the Student-Led Free School Vision</strong><br />
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In his book, Talks to Parents and Teachers (page 109), Lane says&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>The relationship between teacher and child should be pure democracy – <em>the child should not be on the defensive, but should be free to ask all questions</em>&#8230; self-government must be given, both in the team play of games and still more in team play made possible for work&#8230; We must give responsibility for, say, history and get the class to discuss the syllabus and the allotment of tie to the part of it, and to assume responsibility for getting through it.</p></blockquote>
<p>Swartz calls Lane’s approach “the policy of personal responsibility”, and definitely speaks to an educational curriculum and process driven by the student and not by the state, that breaks radically from both Mann and Dewey.  As a contemporary of Dewey, though across the ocean, he was the alternative road less taken to the conventional instructional model put in motion by Mann.  Lane was the educational mentor of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A._S._Neill">A.S. Neill</a>, who later started Summerhill, the most famous free school in the world, which has inspired many others, including Sudbury Valley.<br />
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As a parent, I think you should know about these three very different types of schools, though many or most families do not have the resources to send their kids to alternative schools, which generally are tuition-based rather than public (tax-based).  Depending on your own expectations and your kid’s proclivities for self-direction, learning style and integration of education in real life, you may want to consider these options or add your voice to the beginning effort to broaden the range of public charter school choices.<br />
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My partner Sally and I had the resources to homeschool our kids during their high school years in a free school type approach generally called “unschooling”.  (See my post titled <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2009/01/03/unschooling-instead-of-high-schooling/">“Unschooling Rather than High Schooling”</a> about how our son Eric took to this approach.)<div id="attachment_2013" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 160px"><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Horace-Mann.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Horace-Mann-150x150.jpg" alt="" title="Horace Mann" width="150" height="150" class="size-thumbnail wp-image-2013" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Horace Mann</p></div>
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		<title>Kudos to Community College</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In 1983 at the age of 25, working for essentially minimum wage as a community organizer, five years after graduating “cum laude” (with distinction) from the University of Michigan with a BA in Speech, I decided to take a mulligan of sorts and go to college again.  Unlike the minimal planning I had done [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_2001" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/WLACC.jpg"><img src="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/WLACC-300x200.jpg" alt="" title="WLACC" width="300" height="200" class="size-medium wp-image-2001" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">West LA Community College in Culver City, CA</p></div>In 1983 at the age of 25, working for essentially minimum wage as a community organizer, five years after graduating “cum laude” (with distinction) from the University of Michigan with a BA in Speech, I decided to take a mulligan of sorts and go to college again.  Unlike the minimal planning I had done the first time, I had put much thought this time based on years of real-life experience into what I would study.  I had met my life-partner Sally, and we were planning to be married in December, with the likelihood that we would raise a family down the road.  My path forward took me to the humble community college, which I have grown to see as perhaps America’s most valuable educational institution.<span id="more-2000"></span><br />
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My goal for college this time was to get through as quickly as possible and come out the other end with a degree in a practical profession (computer science in my case) where there were plenty of relatively interesting,  relatively high-paying jobs.  Sally and I were both paid organizers for the Los Angeles chapter of the National Organization for Women, but we knew there was no way we could raise a family working some 70 hours a week (for a cause we believed deeply in) but for salaries that calculated out at maybe four or five dollars an hour.<br />
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My first go-round at Michigan, my course work was in TV and film production, leading me here to Los Angeles where I competed with a zillion other wannabes for low-paying entry-level jobs behind the camera in the entertainment business that might lead to higher-paying jobs in the future if I worked hard, was lucky and made the right connections.  (See my piece on <a href="http://www.leftyparent.com/blog/2009/07/24/game-show-gas-gofer/">“Game Show, Gas &#038; Gofer”</a>.)  With elementary, middle, and high school thrown in, that was some 17 years of my formal public school education that the state of Michigan must have spent over 100K on (considering K-12 and financial need grants I got for college at the state’s expense).<br />
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Still stuck in the mindset of that first go-round, I figured I would enroll directly in a nearby public university, like UCLA or Cal State Northridge.  But my further research found that I had at least three semesters of math and science class requirements I needed to take beyond all the programming and electrical engineering classes that would constitute the core of my BS in Computer Science.  Even state universities were getting pretty expensive, and I had very limited funds (and none available this go-round from parents or scholarships).<br />
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What I finally discovered was that I could take virtually all of these required math and science classes at the local community colleges for a fraction of the cost of the universities.  Once finished, I could transfer to the university and graduate with no less of degree than if I had done all my coursework there.  This discovery ended up saving me several thousand dollars that might otherwise have deterred me from returning to school.  I could launch into a new round of higher education without the high financial stakes until I was well down the path.<br />
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I ended up taking classes at West Los Angeles Community College (WLACC) for three semesters.  I took three semesters of calculus, two of physics and mechanical drawing, and one of chemistry and linear algebra.  Sum total, it cost me $150 tuition ($50 per semester) plus $300 to $400 for books and supplies (which would have been comparable at a university).  To top it all off, my classes were small and informal, and my teachers (particularly the woman who taught all my math classes) were mostly pretty good.<br />
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Hearing other people’s experiences later at various local community colleges, I think I was pretty lucky to have such small classes.  My last semester there I had calculus and physics classes both with just four students.  We didn’t even really sit in the desks of the school’s portable classrooms, instead spending the hour at the chalk board scrawling out the problems we had worked while informally chatting with each other and the teacher.  I could not have asked for a more ideal environment for learning these very arcane disciplines.<br />
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WLACC played a critical role in helping me transition as a young adult from the world of work back into an academic degree program.  For many older youth and young adults today, it appears to provide a “halfway house” of sorts between present realities and future goals.<br />
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In my case, after completing my third semester at WLACC, I was able to transfer to Cal State Los Angeles and get my BS in computer science in an additional two years of classes.  I came to that institution academically “tuned up” by my time at WLACC and laser-focused on acing all my classes.  I ended up graduating number one in my class with a 4.0 GPA.<br />
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I am surprised more kids coming out of high school (and wish to go to college) do not take advantage of community colleges to complete their first two years of college coursework in a much less expensive and high-stakes setting.  I think the “junior colleges” still have a certain pejorative connotation to many, but it is such an opportunity to put your toe in the water of collegiate academics and get half way to a bachelor’s degree at much lower cost and perhaps with much less stress.<br />
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Many of the classes I had previously attended at four-year universities, were huge lectures with much less accessible teachers, particular the lower division ones.  If one is to attend a large public university (rather than say a small private one), I don’t see any great academic disadvantage spending the first couple years going to community college instead and then transferring into a four-year program.  The degree attained is not tarnished by spending the first two years taking classes somewhere else.<br />
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You may think it a stretch to compare community college with the iconic one-room school of an earlier age, but I think both capture our country’s original spirit of liberty, self-reliance and egalitarianism, values that seem to flag in many of our other educational (and non-educational) institutions today.<br />
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Today’s community colleges (at least from my experience here in California) offer a range of classes, open to everyone at a reasonable cost, and featuring the flexibility to fit your learning into the realities of life of work and or family.  Students can range from high-school age up to older adults.  These institutions generally lack the prestige and the pretense of more expensive, higher-stakes, more highly structured universities, which tend to be much more complex institutions with a dual focus of research and offering classes.<br />
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Now twenty-some years since my own experience, many of the young adult friends of my own grown kids are going to community college as their educational path after high school, either part or full-time, as they juggle life’s complications.  My daughter’s friend is a 21-year-old single mom, with a four-year-old son, who is now attending a nurse training program.  My daughter Emma, who was homeschooled during her high school years, was able to continue learning French at another local campus.  Several of my son’s friends are pushing forward on technical or more traditionally academic paths in these more flexible, accessible institutions.<br />
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Every state is different, but in California, a high school age youth can take any and all community college classes for free (or at least that was the case prior to this recent budget crisis).  This can be a boon, particularly for homeschooled kids, to chart a path into college using these schools in their “halfway house” role.  For a highly motivated youth looking for technical training, community college can provide certificates in a number of computer and other technical skills that can be leveraged for entry-level jobs in technical support and help desks.<br />
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I could see this emerging as a way outside the box alternative path for some kids to the increasingly high-stakes, high-pressure, and highly regimented high school experience.  You could in theory let your highly motivated kid take an array of community college classes instead of going through all the rigmarole of four years of high school.  I actually would like to see some charter high schools experiment with migrating towards the more student-driven environment of a community college.<br />
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From my experience, self-motivated learning is the heart of a really strong education.  If you are going set a threshold for knowledge and skills acquired to merit high school graduation, why not offer an array of courses that young students can take at their own pace and in their own time.  There would be no time pressure to take something when you are a certain age or to finish “on time”.  This approach could allow a more natural mixing of ages and remove the constant anxiety, adult and peer pressure to stay on and externally defined academic schedule, rather than ones own.  Last I checked, life is not a race to the finish line (which is death after all).<br />
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Again, as I always say, there need to be “many paths” and these diminutive educational institutions are not for everybody.  But they can be an effective path forward for highly motivated students looking for high value and flexibility at a low cost of dollars and stress.</p>
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